Frequently asked questions from host families
Find the answers to the main questions that our families to host an au pair.
Find the answers to the main questions that our families to host an au pair.
Many families have questions about how the au pair programme works. You should know that depending on the host country, some rules or requirement of the au pair program can be different, so if you have a specific question about your country before to host an au pair, and you don’t find the answer in this page, email or call us.
Here you will find the answers to the most important questions of families and response about the au pair program in France. These responses could help you assess whether the au pair experience is right for you.
⚠ Be aware we have other pages where we explain you a lot of information about becoming a host family, the condition for hiring an au pair, the cost of our services, how works au pair Butrfly and how to register. Please check the pages on the menu “for host families” if your question is not already answered.
The au pair program is a cultural and linguistic exchange that enables young foreigners (aged 18-30) to discover French culture while living with a host family. In exchange for accommodation and pocket money, the au pair helps the family with child-related tasks and participates in family life.
The au pair program is mainly aimed at young foreigners who don’t speak your language or have the same nationality as your family members. However, there are some exceptions, depending on the country and status in force.
An investment contract is mandatory. It must define :
This contract must be signed before the au pair arrives.
Monthly costs vary from country to country, and include :
The au pair usually pays for her own visa, plane ticket and language courses.
An au pair works between 25 and 40 hours a week, with at least :
Find out more about au pairing conditions by country on our page : Conditions of the au pair program for hiring an au pair
The Au Pair’s tasks are mainly related to the children:
The au pair does not replace a housekeeper, and should not be responsible for the complete upkeep of the house.
Yes, it’s even an advantage for your children’s language learning. However, the au pair is also coming to learn your language, so it’s a good idea for him/her to practice with the parents.
An agency offers :
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